How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back To Your Arms Without Pushing Him Away!

Everyone deserves the right to be happy. Happy at home, place of work and even in relationships with one another. No one falls in love to break up afterwards. People fall in love to have a happy relationship that will last and probably not end. But unfortunately due to some circumstances beyond our control, cracks begin to occur on the walls and the relationship collapses. Does that bother you? Of course it does! Do not be bothered, the good news is that there are strategies you can follow to get your ex boyfriend back without driving him away.

To begin with, you are going to have to ask yourself four (4) very important questions:

1. Is the issue at hand worth the attention it is receiving?


2. Is it necessary to argue this issue now?


3. Can any meaningful result come out of the argument or should the matter be swept under the carpet.


4. Is the matter worth talking about in the first place?

There is no need pressing over the issue at hand if your answer to the above four questions are ‘No’. When issues arise properly tackle them. Do not choose to rather sweep the matter under the carpet and move on. This usually leads to break up in the long run. Try to treat every issue as they come and don’t leave any problem unresolved.

The next thing you need to do is to learn how to disregard what and how others feel or think about you. Do not feel inferior to others. People either think you are a talkative or that you don’t talk at all. Whether people think you are clever or stupid, do not allow these kinds of things to give you much cause for concern. Try to be your real self and let others, including your ex boyfriend to see you for who you are and not for what you are trying to be.

Another step you need to take is to discard all thoughts you have about your ex boyfriend and focus more on yourself. You will put the stress of the breakup away when you mentally and emotionally take yourself out of the situation. When both partners feel calm and relaxed without being under any undue pressure, than resolving the issue becomes easy. Keep some distance away from your ex and put in a call or two once in a while and maintain positive conversation. If you actually want to survive the whole situation then take the emotions out of it.

The situation can be critically analyzed when both parties have had enough time to relax and fashion out ways to resolve the issue. The key to reconciliation is for both parties to be in a state where they are no longer emotionally driven.

These are the initial steps to win your ex boyfriend back without driving him away. Check out T ‘Dub’ Jackson’s book “The Magic of Making Up.”

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