75% of all known breakups are called off by the woman. History has shown it that women are NOT logical creatures. They find it pretty hard to say or do what is in their best interest. A woman is ready to reconcile just days after a breakup. But she is shy and embarrassed that she created a scene and would never let you know she would love to makeup with you. You need to play your cards well and make the first move because she will be expecting that from you. So the ball is in your court to get back together with your ex girlfriend.
There are two things you need to do to achieve your goal of getting your ex girlfriend back together with you. First of them is to let her know that you are desirable and secondly that you are available and need her back in your life.
Analyze and fix the issue that caused the breakup in the first place. For example, when Josh and Vivica first met and started going out, he took her to games and concerts because she is crazy about arts. As they settled into the relationship, they got more involved in going out to sports dates. It never occurred to John that they have not been to an arts event for close to five months.
He realized that to get her back, he had to show her the other fun parts she never experienced in the relationship. Josh did not push himself too hard on Vivica, by bombarding her with calls and text messages immediately. Instead he gave her some time off and later broke the silence by casually telling her he had two tickets to an arts event and asked whether she would like to go with him ‘as friends.’
Guess what happened? She was so happy to hear the news and finally she’s got the chance to go out once more with the man she is still in love with. They went to the arts event and from there went to a nice restaurant around and bought one of the best bottle of wine on the menu. She was really swept off her feet and excited about the ‘new’ Josh and did not hesitate to tell him she wouldn’t mind starting all over again with him.
Now Josh has the advantage and it’s left for him to decide whether or not the relationship deserve a second chance. Now she is his for takes. He confessed to her that it’s been a fun having her around again after all they have passed through together. He also told her that if they happen to get back together he would show her some new stuff about sports because he is still a sports lover.
Because that’s what she’s been expecting she did not give it a second though and agreed immediately. The new terms had been set for the relationship to continue and everyone went home happy.
It is worthy of note to mention that Vivica actually broke up with Josh and now she wants him back. Josh handled everything well in discovering what lacked in their relationship and fixing it, then setting out a new standard for better times ahead.
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